You have this vibe that something is just off. You don’t know what it is, but something tells you that your man is secretly seeing with another lady.
You’re out with your guy and he keeps anxiously looking at his cellphone. Odd, he never texts you as much as he’s currently texting the person he is right now. He excuses himself… and takes his phone with him.
Usually he’s really quick at using the bathroom, but right now it feels like you are living each second as a year while you wait for him to get back. You look at your phone, and it’s been ten minutes before he finally gets back to the table and sits down.
1. He Is Uses his Phone A Lot More its not for you.
If he suddenly starts texting more often, but he still takes forever to reply to you… that may be a sign that he’s cheating. It doesn’t mean he is definitely cheating on you. He could just be having an important conversation or maybe its business or he is busy…
2. He Suddenly starts Caring About His Hygiene
you guys have typically known each other well and you know how he takes hi hygiene. If he takes a sudden interest in how he looks, his physical health, and even starts showering more, who is he trying to impress? Hmm, who is he trying to impress, you or some else, piff.
3. He Goes Out More
Whether he’s going out “with friends” or has something come up with family, or always busy with work or comes home late, this could be a red flag that he’s really seeing someone else.
5. He Avoids Getting Close To You or touching you
If you notice that your guy suddenly avoids intimacy with you. Some men who fear intimacy will cheat to feel like they still have power over their sex life, and some men cheat simply because they want someone “young and new”… Which leads to my next sign.
6. He’s suddenly becomes Selfish
If your man is self-indulgent and puts himself before everything, never compromising with you, he could be the kind of guy to cheat, as infidelity is a selfish act on it’s own.
7. He Follows A *Lot* Of Sexy Women On Social Media, hulala
Have you noticed him “liking” a lot of sexy pictures on his Facebook? What about who he watches on Instagram? If they’re mostly hot young ladies, you can probably guess what’s on his mind or not.
8. He Didn’t Update His Dating Profile (Even If You Started Dating Him)
funny right, but true. Maybe you met on one of the many dating site or even social media. You updated your profile to proudly show you met a guy you love… and he didn’t update his profile. Girl your man is clearly not your man anymore.
9. He picks quarrel easily
If your guy starts arguments or quarrel with you, especially if it’s over something simple, he could be looking for an excuse to get away from you and towards someone else…
10. He Needs “His Privacy”
You thought he was comfortable with you knowing more about him and being close to him, and suddenly he starts needing more and more time by himself. What could he even be doing with all of that time alone? That might be a sign he’s cheating on you.
11. He changed all his passwords
He changed all his social network passwords, his phone lock patterns and every other lock you know. hmm, he is hiding something and that's serious.
If you’ve noticed your guy is doing 1-4 of these things, I would say it up to coincidence. Now, if you noticed he was doing 6-8, then you might be more worried.
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